Peb haiv hmoob txawv heev li os ib puas xyoo dhau los. Txawm hais tias peb rov qab tsib caug xyoo, tib neeg yuav txawv ntawm peb cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig. Qhov txawv yog dab tsi? Vim li cas tib neeg thiaj poob siab dawb paug, simplicity, siab dawb paug, thiab es tsis txhob tuaj xws li lub tswv yim xws li callousness ntawm ib tug neeg, indifference, indifference? Ntau tus tsis nco qab txog tib neeg, sib pauv rau qee yam kev suav hauv lub neej, piv txwv li, nyiaj txiag lossis kev qia dub. Wb sim xav seb coob leej ntau tus nkag siab lo lus "hu".
kev nyuaj siab yog dab tsi?
Lub tswv yim no yog kawm tshwj xeeb hauv kev puas siab puas ntsws. Ntawm no nws txhais tau tias yog tus cwj pwm zoo uas tau tsim los ntawm ib tus neeg tsis muaj peev xwm ua siab ntev, ua siab ntev, ua siab zoo rau cov teeb meem thiab kev tu siab ntawm lwm tus neeg lossis lwm yam kev muaj sia nyob. Dab tsi callousness yog paub ua ntej los ntawm cov neeg uas yuav tsum tau nrog cov neeg callous. Hmoov tsis zoo, muaj ntau thiab ntau ntawm cov no hauv peb lub neej. Peb tuaj yeem ntsib tus cwj pwm tsis zoo ntawm cov neeg rau peb ntawm txoj kev, hauv khw, hauvtsev kho mob, tom haujlwm, thiab lwm yam. Cov kws txawj to taub dab tsi los ntawm callousness thiab lwm yam zoo li cas nws ntxiv?
Lub ntsiab lus tseem ceeb rau kev hais lus
Dab tsi callousness tuaj yeem nkag siab los ntawm cov txheej txheem ntawm kev coj ncaj ncees thiab kev puas siab puas ntsws uas ua rau nws sib raug zoo nrog tib neeg. Lo lus no tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev nyab xeeb ntxiv nrog cov yam ntxwv ntawm tus neeg xws li indifference, indifference, rudeness. Qee zaum kev qia dub thiab kev ntxub ntxaug tuaj yeem tshwm sim nrog kev tsis zoo. Kev hlub tsis muaj leej twg nyiam.
Ib zaug ib tug txiv neej txawj ntse tau nug ib lo lus nug tias: "Koj nkag siab lo lus "kev hlub" li cas? Rau qhov nws teb tias callousness yog sib npaug rau indifference. Lwm yam kev tsis zoo qhia lawv tus cwj pwm rau ib tug neeg, txawm hais tias nws yog qhov tsis zoo, tab sis indifference tsis qhia dab tsi, nws txo qis kev sib raug zoo mus rau xoom, rhuav tshem tag nrho cov zoo rudiments ntawm kev sib raug zoo ntawm tib neeg. Nws yog tib neeg qhov xav tau kev lees paub thiab kev hlub. Tsis muaj kev xav tau lossis tsis muaj txiaj ntsig, nws kev coj ncaj ncees tuag, sab hauv tawg. Nws yog callousness, indifference uas yuav tua tau kev hlub. Tsis muaj qhov tsis zoo yuav muab piv nrog tus cwj pwm tsis zoo. Kev npau taws, kev ntxub ntxaug, kev ntxub ntxaug tuaj yeem chim, tab sis lawv tsis lees paub qhov muaj nyob ntawm ib tug neeg, ib tug neeg. Thiab callousness thiab indifference figuratively tig nws mus rau hauv qhov chaw khoob. Lawv tso dab tsi.
Kev tsis txaus siab thiab tsis quav ntsej tuaj yeem ua rau dab tsi?
Cov yam ntxwv ntawm kev ncaj ncees thiab kev puas siab puas ntsws ntawm tib neeg, hauv qhov tseem ceeb, tsis muaj dab tsi cuam tshuam thaum xub thawj siab ib muagnqa. Ib tus neeg hu tsis tau yuav tsis ua dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm, tab sis cov txiaj ntsig ntawm kev coj cwj pwm tsis zoo yog qhov tsis txaus ntseeg. Muaj pes tsawg zaus peb ntsib cov lus: "Yog tias lawv tau maj nrawm ua ntej …", "Yog tias lawv tau pab kuv tam sim ntawd…", "Yog tias lawv tau muab kev pab kho mob rau nws tam sim ntawd …"? Tseeb tiag, yog tias koj xyuam xim rau ib tug neeg, nws qhov teeb meem ua ntej me ntsis, koj tuaj yeem cawm nws ntawm kev ua yuam kev loj, tiv thaiv kev puas tsuaj ntawm tus kheej, thiab lwm yam.
B. Yasensky ib zaug tau hais ib lo lus zoo heev ntawm cov ncauj lus no. Nws hais meej meej tias qhov phem tshaj plaws, cov yeeb ncuab tuaj yeem tua tau, cov phooj ywg tuaj yeem ntxeev siab, tab sis cov neeg tsis quav ntsej yog qhov phem tshaj txhua tus. Lawv tuaj yeem ua ntsiag to tso cai rau kev tua neeg, kev ntxeev siab. Koj yeej tsis paub dab tsi los ntawm lawv. Callousness thiab indifference tuaj yeem ua rau lub cev thiab lub hlwb raug mob, poob lub ntsiab lus ntawm lub neej, kev tuag nyob rau hauv qhov xwm txheej hnyav.
Yuav ua li cas thiaj tshem tau kev tsis quav ntsej thiab kev quaj?
Peb yuav tsum paub txog kev hu tsis zoo thiab tsis quav ntsej. Qhov no yog qhov thaiv ntawm ntau yam kev xav. Thaum pib ntawm txoj kev loj hlob ntawm cov zoo no tej zaum yuav yog lub sij hawm ntawm thaum yau. Muaj ntau qhov laj thawj rau lawv txoj kev loj hlob, tab sis yuav ua li cas tshem tau lawv?
- Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom tsis txhob ua phem rau leej twg lossis ib yam dab tsi. Koj yuav tsum tau cob qhia kom tso tseg txhua yam: ob qho tib si phem thiab zoo. Kev chim siab ua rau ib pob ntawm cov lus tsis hais thiab kev xav.
- Koj yuav tsum qhia koj cov kev xav hauv kev sib raug zoo. Qhov no tsis yog kev qw, kev puas tsuaj, tab sis yog nrhiav kev tsim kho los daws cov teeb meem.
- Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom paub txog thiab txhim kho qhov zoo ntawm koj tus kheej. Peb ua tsis tautag nrho zoo, nrog rau tsuas yog tsis zoo. Yog li ntawd, yuav tsum tsim kom muaj qhov zoo, thiab tshem tawm qhov tsis zoo.
Los ntawm kev cob qhia hauv kev nkag siab, kev xav ntawm ib puag ncig, kev loj hlob ntawm cov khoom zoo nyob ib puag ncig koj, koj yuav tsis hnov dab tsi, tsis muaj dab tsi thiab tsis muaj zog.
