Hmoov tsis zoo, qhov hluav taws kub ntawm qhov tseeb yog qhov xwm txheej txaus ntshai heev, kev puas tsuaj loj. Los ntawm qhov kev pom ntawm cov qauv lus, lo lus "hluav taws" yog ib qho kev ua tiav rau cov lus xws li "kev txom nyem" thiab "kev puas tsuaj". Ib txhia psycholinguists correlates lo lus "hluav taws" thiab "tuag" ua ke. Tab sis nws tsis yog hais txog qhov ntawd. Ib tug xov tooj ntawm cov phau ntawv npau suav mob siab rau kev txhais lus ntawm qee cov duab nrog kev koom tes ntawm hluav taws, pom los ntawm ib tug neeg thaum nws pw tsaug zog, txhais qhov tshwm sim no ua ib qho cim ntawm qee yam kev puas tsuaj ntuj tsim. Tab sis kuj tseem muaj cov neeg txhais lus uas hais tias hluav taws hauv npau suav yog kev ua kom huv thiab rov ua dua tshiab ntawm txhua yam muaj sia! Nws txhais li cas thiab, thaum kawg, yog vim li cas npau suav npau suav - peb yuav kawm los ntawm kab lus no! Mus!
Vim li cas npau suav npau suav raws li Miller phau ntawv npau suav
Tus neeg nyiam thiab nyiam los ntawm ntau tus kws kho mob Asmeskas tus kws kho mob Gustav Miller qhib qhov kev cia siab zoo rau peb, ua rau kev npau suav zoo li lub ntsiab lus zoo. Nws hais tias qhov hluav taws kub hauv npau suav yog lub cim zoo siab qhia txog kev hloov pauv, ua tiav ntawm cov phiaj xwm uas yuav dhau los ua qhov loj. Thiab tseem tus kws tshawb fawb ntxiv me me "yav hauv cov tshuaj pleev" rau nws cov lus rosy.
- Cov neeg raug tsim txom koj pom thaum hluav taws hauv koj npau suav qhia txog kev mob rau koj thiab koj cov neeg koj hlub.
- Kev taug kev hla qhov tshauv yog xav txog yav dhau los.
Vim li cas npau suav ntawm hluav taws hauv Tsvetkov phau ntawv npau suav
- Yog tias koj pom hluav taws uas huv si thiab tsis muaj pa taws ntau dhau, ces npaj txhij rau qhov tseeb tias koj lub neej yuav hloov mus rau … qhov zoo dua! Cov nplaim taws zoo li no yog lub cim ntawm kev ua tiav ntawm koj lub siab nyiam. Nco ntsoov tias qhov kev txhais lus no tsuas yog siv rau cov kev npau suav uas cov nplaig hluav taws tsis cuam tshuam rau lub tsev thiab tsis txhob rhuav tshem tib neeg.
- Muaj nyob rau hauv Evgeny Tsvetkov phau ntawv npau suav uas tsis yog kev txhais lus ntawm qhov hluav taws kub npau suav txog. Cov pa luam yeeb, khawb thiab cov nplaim taws kub hnyiab tau ceeb toom koj ntawm cov kab mob uas yuav tshwm sim, kev tsis zoo ntawm kev noj qab haus huv, kev ntshai, phobias, kev nyuaj siab. Panic attack syndromes tsis suav nrog!
- Puas pom hluav taws kub hnyiab hauv tsev li cas? Kev sib cav ntawm tsev neeg tab tom tuaj. Kev sib haum xeeb hauv koj tsev neeg tom qab npau suav yuav tsis tuaj sai sai no.
- Yog cov nplaim taws tsuas ncig koj lub tsev yam tsis tau kov, ces koj yuav txaus siab rau txoj haujlwm tsis txaus ntseeg hauv zej zog.
- Yog koj saib koj lub tsev kub hnyiab ntawm sab, toskev poob loj hauv lub neej; yog koj pom ib lub tsev uas koj tsis paub kub hnyiab tau, kev zoo siab yuav nyob ntawm ntug ntug!
- Vim li cas npau suav tua hluav taws? Rau kev thaj yeeb thiab kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb? Rau kev daws txhua yam teeb meem? Tsis yog, phooj ywg! Txoj kev npau suav no yog lub cim ntawm qee qhov haujlwm tsis tau npaj tseg uas koj yuav ua yav tom ntej. Tsis tas li ntawd, kev npau suav no txhais tau tias kev sib cav sib ceg thiab kev tsis sib haum xeeb nrog tib neeg.
Vim li cas npau suav ntawm hluav taws hauv Longo phau ntawv npau suav
- Raws li phau ntawv npau suav no, hluav taws kub yog qhov cim ntawm kev thuam, kev sib cav, kev poob thiab kev ntxeev siab!
- Kev tua hluav taws yog lub cim ntawm kev tsis sib haum xeeb thiab kev txaj muag nrog koj kev koom tes.
- Tsim kom dim ntawm hluav taws? Koj yog cowardly thiab infantile nyob rau hauv lub neej: koj yog ib tug clown thiab ib tug dawb txhais tes, ib lub txaj thiab ib tug me nyuam me! Koj tsuas paub daws txhua yam teeb meem, khiav tawm ntawm lawv, cowardly tail ntawm koj ob txhais ceg.
- Yog koj npau suav ntawm koj tus kheej tua, ces koj yog ib tug neeg siab phem thiab qia dub! Nws yog koj qhov txhaum uas lwm tus raug kev txom nyem! Xav ua ntej yuav lig!
