Nws zoo kawg nkaus tias qee pawg hnub nyoog tsis muaj ciam teb. Piv txwv li, nyob rau hauv txoj cai lij choj ntawm Lavxias teb sab Federation tsis muaj meej meej hnub nyoog txwv rau lub tswvyim ntawm "me nyuam". Nws yog qhov tseeb tias txhua tus niam txiv suav tias nws tus menyuam yog tus menyuam thaum muaj hnub nyoog kaum yim thiab peb caug xyoo. Txawm li cas los xij, ua raws li kev cai, ib tug pej xeem yuav tsum tau them se txij thaum yug los, thiab tuaj yeem qhia nws txoj kev xav txog leej niam leej txiv yuav nyob nrog tom qab lawv sib nrauj, txij li hnub nyoog kaum xyoo. Lub luag haujlwm txhaum cai ntawm ib tus neeg hauv peb lub xeev pib thaum muaj hnub nyoog kaum plaub, thiab twb nyob rau ntawm kaum yim, tag nrho cov peev txheej raug cai pib. Nws yog ib yam nrog cov tub ntxhais hluas - lub hnub nyoog txwv ntawm lub sij hawm no ntawm ib tug neeg lub neej yog tsis spelled tawm nyob qhov twg. Tab sis hais txog lub tswv yim zoo li no thaum yau, peb coob leej tseem xav txog tej yam meej meej ntawm tus me nyuam. Los ntawm tsab xov xwm no koj yuav kawm txog dab tsi hnub nyoog no thiab dab tsi yog nws tus yam ntxwvnta.
hnub nyoog txwv
Ntau tus kws tshaj lij tseem xav tias cov menyuam mos yog cov menyuam yug los txog rau ib xyoos. Nws yog ib qho nyuaj heev kom nrhiav tau lub ntsiab lus ntawm "tus me nyuam mos noj mis", tab sis siv lo lus no tsis cia li coj mus rau hauv tus account tag nrho cov me nyuam mos uas leej niam tsis pub niam mis. Xav txog thawj qhov kev faib tawm. Me nyuam mos yog ib lub hnub nyoog thaum ntxov uas tag nrho cov kev txawj physiological ntawm tus me nyuam tau txais. Qhov kev ua tiav tseem ceeb ntawm lub hnub nyoog no yog qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev txawj hais lus, lawv txoj kev txhim kho raws sij hawm, nrog rau kev sib raug zoo (kev nco qab) nrog ib puag ncig.
Psychologists hais tias nyob rau hauv ib tug me nyuam lub neej, me nyuam mos yog qhov tsim nyog tshaj plaws thiab nyob rau tib lub sij hawm ruaj khov lub sij hawm ntawm kev loj hlob. Menyuam mos tuaj sai li sai tau thaum tus menyuam kov yeej thawj qhov teebmeem hauv nws lub neej - yug. Rau lub sijhawm ntev nws nyob hauv plab, qhov chaw uas muaj txhua yam tsim nyog rau lub neej xis nyob - zaub mov, sov so, kev nplij siab. Thiab tam sim no tus me nyuam nkag mus rau hauv lub ntiaj teb dawb: huab cua sib txawv kiag li, ua pa sib txawv, lub ntiaj teb sib txawv kiag li nyob ib puag ncig nws! Kev loj hlob ntawm me nyuam mos yog ceev heev. Thawj zaug, kev sib raug zoo raug tsim, kev xav tsis yog nrog leej niam, tab sis kuj nrog lwm tus neeg hauv tsev neeg. Thawj zaug, tus menyuam kawm paub tias nws zoo li kev sib txuas lus los ntawm lub suab, kov, tes taw.
Tus nqi ntawm kev sib txuas lus
Los ntawm thawj feeb ntawm lub neejkev sib txuas lus dhau los ua ib qho tseem ceeb ntawm kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam tus cwj pwm. Nws yog ua tsaug rau kev sib txuas lus hais tias tus me nyuam yog socialized, tau txais ib tug ruaj khov psyche. Tus me nyuam yuav tsum muaj kev sov siab thiab kev saib xyuas, txwv tsis pub qhov kev saib xyuas tsis txaus yuav tshwm sim, uas, dhau los, yuav cuam tshuam rau tag nrho lub neej yav tom ntej ntawm tus neeg me - lub hnub nyoog no tseem ceeb heev. Lub sijhawm me nyuam mos hauv ib tus neeg lub neej yog qhov tshwj xeeb. Los ntawm kev xyaum lwm tus, tus menyuam kawm ntawv sai heev hnub tom qab hnub. Ua ntej tshaj plaws, nws, ntawm chav kawm, tshaj tawm rau lwm tus txog nws lub siab xav, txog qhov nws xav li cas. Cov me nyuam tsis tuaj yeem qhia koj tias lawv tsis nyiam dab tsi thiab ua rau lawv tsis xis nyob, yog li nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nkag siab txog koj tus menyuam txoj kev xav.
Kev loj hlob ntawm me nyuam mos
Tej zaum tus yam ntxwv tseem ceeb tshaj plaws ntawm cov menyuam mos yog qhov tau txais lub siab tsim. Ib tug xov tooj ntawm cov kws tshawb fawb xav txog kev loj hlob ntawm lub hlwb ntawm tus me nyuam nyob rau lub hnub nyoog no yog sensorimotor. Qhov theem ntawm kev xav no yog nyob ntawm kev xav thiab kev xav ntawm lub ntiaj teb no. Txog tam sim no, tus me nyuam tsis muaj kev txawj sib txuas lus, tab sis qhov zoo tshaj plaws yog nws tseem sib txuas lus nrog lub ntiaj teb no! Kev tawm dag zog yog qhov tseem ceeb heev rau cov menyuam yaus - tus menyuam mos tas li xav lob ib yam dab tsi, tom, nqus … Tsis tas li ntawd, cov menyuam yaus lub sijhawm no nquag mloog thiab saib xyuas qhov tshwm sim ib puag ncig. Tom qab ntawd, lawv coj tus cwj pwm ntawm lwm tus thiab luam qee yam ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nco ntsoov tias tus me nyuam twb muaj hnub nyoog ob lub hlis muaj peev xwmkom paub qhov txawv "ib tus kheej" los ntawm "neeg txawv teb chaws", tus neeg txawv. Nws paub zoo txog nws niam nws txiv lub suab, tib lub sij hawm, nws yuav ntshai thaum nws hnov ib lub suab tshiab. Tsis tas li ntawd, tus menyuam kawm paub twv seb yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim yav tom ntej. Piv txwv li, yog hais tias tus me nyuam tau smeared nrog ib co tshuaj nplaum txhua hnub, thiab cov txheej txheem no tsis heev rau nws nyiam, tej zaum nws yuav ntshai thiab quaj sai li sai tau thaum nws pom ib tug paub raj.
Tus me nyuam ua yeeb yam
Cov yam ntxwv ntawm me nyuam mos kuj yog nyob rau hauv qhov tshwj xeeb ntawm thawj qhov kev txav ntawm tus menyuam. Yog li, piv txwv li, cov kws tshawb fawb paub qhov tshwm sim ntawm qhov hu ua qhov muag ntawm tus menyuam yug tshiab. Chaotic qhov muag txav yuav zoo li txawv txawv, tab sis tsis txhob txhawj. Tus kws kho mob soj ntsuam tus menyuam yuav pom qhov sib txawv ntawm cov qauv, yog tias muaj. Hauv feem ntau ntawm cov xwm txheej, nws kawm sai sai los tsom nws qhov muag ntawm ib qho khoom tshwj xeeb. Feem ntau, cov menyuam mos muaj kev taw qhia tshwj xeeb. Los ntawm lawv, cov menyuam yaus kuj qhia lawv txoj kev xav. Cov menyuam mos kawm nkag mus - qhov no yog thawj txoj hauv kev uas lawv txav mus. Qhov kev nyiam tshaj plaws ntawm txhua tus menyuam yaus yog qhov qhia. Nrog nws tus ntiv tes me me, tus menyuam yuav qhia qhov nws xav lob, ntawm tus uas nws xav mus ntawm tes, thiab lwm yam.
Nyob rau ib xyoos ntawm lub neej
Thawj hnub nyoog teeb meem uas, tej zaum, txhua tus neeg hauv ntiaj teb ntsib, tshwm sim rau nws xyoo thib ob txij thaum yug los. Txoj kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv me nyuam mos mus los ntawm leaps thiab ciam teb, thiab feem ntau tus me nyuam lub siab lub ntsws tsis muaj peev xwm perceive.tag nrho cov ntaub ntawv uas nws tau txais. Thaum lub sij hawm no, tus me nyuam yuav tshwj xeeb tshaj yog capricious, zoo li unyielding rau kev kawm ntawv. Nyob rau theem no hauv lub neej, tus menyuam twb xav ua ntau yam ntawm lawv tus kheej. Nws yog qhov tshwj xeeb tshaj yog raug rau qhov tseeb tias cov neeg laus hais lus rau nws, tsis txhob cia nws so thiab kov cov khoom txaus ntshai, coj nws tawm ntawm cov chaw uas cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum tsis txhob mus. Kev kub ntxhov ntawm thawj xyoo yog qhov kev sim uas tsis yog tus menyuam xwb, tab sis kuj yog nws niam nws txiv yuav tsum kov yeej! Thaum lub sij hawm nyuaj no, cov neeg laus yuav tsum nyob ib puag ncig tus me nyuam nrog kev saib xyuas, ua siab ntev rau cov menyuam yaus thiab tsis txhob nyob ze rau lub siab uas lawv tus menyuam tsis mloog. Kev tso cai rau lub sijhawm no tuaj yeem ua rau kev yug menyuam tsis raug cai. Lub tswv yim tsuas yog tsim nyog rau txhua tsev neeg lub sijhawm no yog kev sib hlub, hwm tus menyuam txoj kev xav thiab kev xav ntawm tus niam txiv thib ob.
Tus Me Nyuam 1 txog 3 xyoos
Tau dim ntawm theem nyuaj - kev kub ntxhov ntawm thawj xyoo ntawm lub neej, cov niam txiv thiab cov menyuam tau nkag mus rau theem tshiab ntawm kev loj hlob. Nws yuav tsum raug sau tseg tam sim ntawd tias yog tias koj kho tus menyuam lub pranks nrog kev lom zem, ces tag nrho cov "kev kub ntxhov" yuav dhau los ntawm txhua tus neeg hauv tsev neeg. Lub hnub nyoog me nyuam mos preschool yog txiav txim siab los ntawm lub hnub nyoog ntawm 1 txog 3 xyoos. Lub sijhawm no, tus menyuam hais lus tau dhau los ua qhov zoo tshaj plaws, cov lus hais tau nce zuj zus, tus menyuam tuaj yeem pib nquag nug koj cov lus nug txog lub ntiaj teb nyob ib puag ncig nws, yog li khaws cov ntawv xov xwm thiab npaj teb txhua lo lus nug tsis yooj yim ntawm koj tus menyuam..” Lub sijhawm no kuj tshwm simNws yog ib qho nyuaj rau muab tus me nyuam pw, yog li qhov kev daws teeb meem zoo tshaj plaws yog nrhiav cov dab neeg ntxim nyiam. Qee cov niam txiv tau sim qhib lub suab nkauj classic rau lawv cov menyuam thaum hmo ntuj thiab tuaj yeem xaus tias yog lub suab paj nruag yog keeb kwm yav dhau los rau lawv cov dab neeg nyiam, tus menyuam yuav tsaug zog hauv ib feeb.
Ib qho teeb meem
Tus cwj pwm tsis zoo ntawm tus menyuam yaus thiab tuaj yeem nqa tau leej twg - tsis yog koj! Peb rov hais dua: txhawm rau kom muaj sia nyob rau theem nyuaj hauv lub neej, lawv yuav tsum raug kho tshwj xeeb nrog kev lom zem. Cia koj txoj kev lom zem thiab kev ua siab ntev pab koj kom dim ntawm kev kub ntxhov tom ntej - hnub nyoog peb xyoos. Lub sij hawm me nyuam mos tuaj yeem txiav txim siab thaum tus me nyuam mus rau qib kindergarten. Nyob ntawd nws ntsib nws cov phooj ywg - ntau tus txiv neej, qee zaum raws li capricious thiab ntshai los ntawm qhov xwm txheej tshiab li nws yog. Cov menyuam yaus xav tias muaj kev tsis ncaj ncees thoob plaws ntiaj teb thaum lawv niam lawv txiv xa lawv, txawm tias tsuas yog ob peb teev, mus rau qhov chaw zov me nyuam. Cov menyuam yaus uas tsis paub qab hau, txhua yam txawv txawv thiab txawv txawv - cov menyuam yaus tsis paub tias tsis ntev lub tsev kawm ntawv yuav dhau los ua qhov chaw uas lawv xav rov qab mus ua si nrog lwm cov menyuam yaus!
Kev nyuaj ntawm chaw zov me nyuam
Raws li tau hais ua ntej lawm, thawj zaug tus menyuam pom nws tus kheej hauv qhov chaw tsis paub zoo li qib kindergarten, nws yuav muaj kev ntxhov siab hnyav, uas cuam tshuam rau tus cwj pwm thiab txawm tias qee qhov kev txawj ntse! Cov teeb meem uas tus me nyuam yuav ntsib thaum cov me nyuam mos xaus thiab pib kawm qib kindergarten yog raws li hauv qab no:
- Tus me nyuam pib quaj ntau dua - feem ntau cov menyuam mos quaj rau thawj hnub ntawm kindergarten. Cov me nyuam xav tsis meej pemtxhawj xeeb txog niam txiv tsis nyob ib puag ncig ntev.
- Txo kev txaus siab rau kev kawm, kev ua si - menyuam yaus muaj kev ntxhov siab, lawv yeej tsis muaj sijhawm ua si lom zem lossis nyeem phau ntawv thaum lawv xav txog lawv niam lawv txiv.
- Helpless - Txawm hais tias koj tus menyuam me nyuam yaus muaj kev ntseeg siab nrog rab diav thiab maj mam mus rau hauv lub lauj kaub, thaum xub thawj hauv kindergarten, nws yuav nyuaj rau cov kev txawj no. Tab sis tag nrho cov no tsuas yog ib qho teeb meem ntawm tus cwj pwm. Cov neeg ua haujlwm kindergarten thiab cov neeg zov me nyuam tuaj yeem pab koj tus menyuam nyob hauv tsev thiab tsis ntev tom ntej no rov muaj kev ywj pheej dua.
- Pw tsaug zog thiab noj me ntsis - yog li cov kws qhia ntawv hais rau niam txiv feem ntau txog lawv tus menyuam thawj hnub hauv kindergarten. Cov menyuam mos yuav tsum tau siv lub sijhawm niaj hnub, tab sis qhov tseeb yog qhov tsim nyog tias lawv twb muaj tus cwj pwm zoo ntawm kev pw tsaug zog thaum nruab hnub ua ntej lawv tuaj rau hauv chaw zov me nyuam.
- Kev tiv thaiv tsis muaj zog - koj tus menyuam yuav mob ntau zaus thaum nws mus rau qib kindergarten. Tawm tsam keeb kwm ntawm kev ntxhov siab, lub cev tiv thaiv kab mob txawm tias tus neeg laus tsis muaj zog heev, tsis hais dab tsi ntawm menyuam yaus!
Pab koj tus menyuam li cas?
Tus me nyuam mos ya mus sai sai, yuav luag tsis pom, qhov tshiab, tsis tau txhais tau tias theem yooj yim tau los hauv koj tus menyuam lub neej, thiab tsuas yog koj tuaj yeem pab nws hloov tau yooj yim dua rau qhov chaw tshiab no. Ua ntej, sim ua raws li kev tswj hwm hnub kindergarten hauv tsev. Pub rau koj tus menyuam raws sijhawm, siv sijhawm rau kev kawm ua si thiab, ntawm chav kawm, tsis txhob hnov qab txog lub sijhawm nyob ntsiag to. Qhia koj tus menyuam kom sib txuas lus nrog lwm tus menyuam ntawm txoj kev, cia nws sivsijhawm thiab nyob ib leeg. Koj tus menyuam yuav tsum muaj peev xwm ua si ntawm nws tus kheej yam tsawg 10 feeb ib teev! Taug kev ntau dua hauv huab cua ntshiab, vim kev taug kev yog txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj plaws kom koj lub cev thiab tiv thaiv kab mob kom zoo!
Yuav ua li cas siv sijhawm so nrog tus menyuam?
Yog li thawj lub lim tiam hauv kindergarten dhau mus, ua ntej hnub so! Lawv yuav tsum ua kom muaj kev xyiv fab thiab nco zoo rau koj thiab koj tus menyuam. Koj tuaj yeem sim npaj noj mov hauv huab cua ntshiab, ua zaub mov yooj yim nrog nws thiab kho txhua tus neeg hauv tsev neeg. Tsim ib lub tsev loj los ntawm improvised txhais tau tias! Cov menyuam yaus nyiam tsim cov pej thuam tiag tiag los ntawm hauv ncoo thiab pam vov. Nyeem phau ntawv, kos duab, ua si kws kho mob lossis tus kws txiav plaub hau. Ua si hauv tsev kawm ntawv: cia tus menyuam ua tiav cov haujlwm yooj yim thiab tau tsib daim rau lawv lossis cov ntawv nplaum xim - txawm nws nyiam. Nkaum cov khoom muaj nqis thiab sim nrhiav cov khoom muaj nqis no ua ke, sim ua kom zoo nkauj appliqué lossis origami. Ua si nkaum-thiab-nrhiav, tuaj nrog kev sib tw kis las, saib tas luav, ua cov duab yas! Thov kom lub asthiv no lom zem thiab tsis nco qab!
