Koj puas muaj lus nug hauv koj lub taub hau: ''Kuv xav tau dab tsi?'' Tsis ntev los sis tom qab, txhua tus neeg nug cov lus nug no. Sim ua kom paub peb txoj kev npau suav thiab ua kom txaus siab, peb xaiv peb txoj kev ua neej.
Yuav ua li cas kom paub koj lub hom phiaj hauv lub sijhawm qee lub neej
Kev ntshaw tuaj yeem ua tiav. Thiab, yog li ntawd, yuav ua li cas txiav txim siab txog cov dej num ntawm qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws thiab npaj cov kev cia siab rau hauv txoj cai? Tom qab tag nrho, txhua leej txhua tus xav kom nplua nuj, noj qab haus huv, tsav tsheb kim, kawm ntau yam lus thiab tau txais kev tsis txawj tuag. Ambition yog qhov zoo heev, tab sis nws yuav tsum tsis txhob tshaj qhov tseeb.
Qhov tseem ceeb uas koj yuav tsum tau kawm ua ntej yog qhov tseem ceeb. Ua ntej, nqa ib tug cwj mem thiab ib daim ntawv dawb paug. Sau tag nrho koj cov kev xav tau hauv ib kab. Sau cov npe nyob rau lub sijhawm tam sim no. Piv txwv li: 'Kuv saib kuv tus account hauv txhab nyiaj. Qhov nyiaj tshuav yog 500 txhiab rubles. Kuv zoo siab thiab txaus siab los ntawm qhov khoom plig rau kuv txoj haujlwm.' Qhov xwm txheej tseem ceeb yog qhov koj sau zoo li kev ntseeg. Qhov ntawd yog, yog tias koj sau tias koj tab tom noj su nrog tus thawj tswj hwm, tab sis subconsciously nkag siab tias qhov no ua tsis tau, lossis ua tau, tab sis tsis nyob ze, ces koj yuav tsum tsis txhob sau nws.
Ua haujlwm nrog daim ntawv xav tau
Thaum koj lub siab xav tau sau cia, pib nyeem lawv nrov nrov ib qho los ntawm ib qho, ncua ua ntej txhua qhov nkag mus. Tom qab nyeem ib qho kev xav, kaw koj ob lub qhov muag thiab mloog zoo rau koj txoj kev xav. Koj xav li cas? Nws tuaj yeem yog kev txaus siab, kev xav zoo dua rau lwm tus, kev tsis quav ntsej, kev zoo siab, lossis kev zoo siab tiag tiag thiab kev ya mus.
Nws yog txoj kev zoo siab uas yog qhov kev ntshaw ntawm txhua tus neeg. Tej zaum nws tseem tsis tau paub txog qhov no, tab sis peb txhua tus siv zog rau kev zoo siab. Coj los ntawm koj txoj kev xav sab hauv xwb, koj yuav nkag siab tias koj xav tau dab tsi hauv lub neej thiab kawm ua ntej.
Kev tshuaj xyuas peb lub ntsiab lus
Tshawb xyuas txhua yam uas tsis ua raws li koj qhov tseem ceeb thiab khaws peb. Vim li cas tsuas yog peb? Nws yooj yim, xyaum thiab tshawb fawb qhia tias ib tug neeg tsis tuaj yeem ua haujlwm tau zoo ntawm ntau tshaj peb txoj haujlwm.
Xav seb koj tab tom ua dab tsi tam sim no, yam haujlwm twg yuav siv sijhawm ntau ntawm koj lub sijhawm. Cov lus nug tseem ceeb los nug koj tus kheej yog seb hom kev ua no coj kuv los ze zog rau kuv lub hom phiaj. Yog lo lus teb tsis yog, ces nws yog lub sij hawm hloov ib yam dab tsi.
Txoj kev mus rau kev zoo siab yog qhov nyuaj, tab sis qhov tseem ceeb ntawm txoj cai yuav ua rau txoj kev yooj yim dua thiab sai dua.
Lwm tus neeg txaus siab
Kev txi rau tus kheej thiab ua neej rau lwm tus, cov neeg hlub, ua rau kev txiav txim siab tsuas yog xaiv lub siab xavib tug neeg uas nws realization coj nws kev xyiv fab thiab kev zoo siab. Tau kawg, kev saib xyuas cov neeg hlub yog ib qho kev coj cwj pwm zoo, tab sis thaum lub siab ntawm lub luag haujlwm hla nws tus kheej txoj kev ntshaw thiab kev npau suav, tsav ib tug neeg mus rau hauv kev nyuaj siab, qhov no tsis yog tus qauv. Muaj ntau yam piv txwv thaum noj qab nyob zoo egoism ua si rau hauv txhais tes ntawm tsis yog ib tug neeg xwb, tab sis kuj cov tswv cuab ntawm nws tsev neeg.
Ib qho piv txwv zoo thaum cov tub ntxhais hluas, siv zog rau yav tom ntej, tawm ntawm lawv txiv tsev thiab tawm mus kawm lossis ua haujlwm hauv lwm lub nroog lossis lub tebchaws uas, raws li lawv xav, cov tub ntxhais hluas xav tau ntau lub sijhawm thiab kev vam meej. Cov hluas maximalism feem ntau pab tib neeg thiab coj lawv mus rau qhov raug. Thaum cov niam txiv, txawj ntse los ntawm kev paub, xav kom lawv tus menyuam nrog lawv, muaj peev xwm pab nws yog tias tsim nyog.
Txhua tus neeg muaj nws lub hom phiaj, thiab tsis muaj leej twg, suav nrog cov txheeb ze, yuav tsum tiv thaiv koj kom tsis txhob ua tiav koj lub hom phiaj. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob tso cai rau koj tus kheej los tswj, ua rau lwm tus yuav tsis ua rau koj zoo siab - es, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws.
Hloov qhov tseem ceeb
Cov npe saum toj no yuav pab koj txhim kho koj lub peev xwm ua ntej. Thiab thaum ncav tag nrho cov ntsiab lus, nws ua rau kev nkag siab kom tau txais daim ntawv teev npe tshiab.
Nws yog ib txwm zoo kawg nkaus rau qhov tseem ceeb hloov nrog hnub nyoog. Cov theem ntawm kev loj hlob tuaj yeem hloov pauv lub siab xav. Hloov qhov tseem ceeb yuav tsum tau hloov pauv, tsis yog lwm txoj hauv kev.
Tsis yog qhov kev xaiv zoo tshaj plaws thaum tus neeg maj nrawm hauv lub neej thiab nrhiav tsis tau nws qhov chaw. Hauv qhov no, nws tseem ceeb heevtxheeb xyuas koj cov kev ua, thiab nkag siab los ntawm qhov twg txhua yam mus tsis ncaj ncees lawm raws li tau npaj tseg. Yog tias koj muaj teeb meem txheeb xyuas koj qhov kev ua, lossis koj xav tau kev pab, nws yuav muaj txiaj ntsig zoo mus ntsib tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws uas tuaj yeem pab koj ua ntej kom raug.
Etymology ntawm lo lus "priority"
Qhov tseeb nthuav yog lo lus 'qhov tseem ceeb' tsis tau siv nyob rau hauv ntau ntau mus txog thaum pib ntawm lub xyoo pua 20th. Ua ntej no, lub tswv yim no tsuas yog siv hauv cov lus xwb.
Lo lus 'preority' muaj Latin ua ntej 'prio', uas txhais tau tias 'ua ntej'. Kev ua ntej txhais tau tias txheeb xyuas cov dej num ua ntej koj lub hom phiaj.
Nws yog ib txoj hauv kev zoo rau kev ua haujlwm nrog qhov tseem ceeb, uas yog txoj kev Eisenhower. Nws pab teeb tsa txhua txoj haujlwm tsuas yog siv ob txoj hauv kev - tseem ceeb thiab ceev ceev.
Qhov txawv ntawm yam tseem ceeb thiab ceev
Lub ntsiab lus Pareto paub zoo qhia peb tias 20 feem pua ntawm peb cov dej num yuav raug muab cais ua qhov tseem ceeb. Txaus siab, tab sis qee qhov ntawm lawv kuj yuav suav tias yog qhov ceev. Qhov txawv yog dab tsi?
Kev ua raws li tej yam tseem ceeb coj koj los ze zog rau koj lub hom phiaj. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, kev ua tiav cov dej num ceev yuav cuam tshuam koj txoj kev xav, tab sis tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam loj rau kev ua tiav ntawm lub hom phiaj xaiv.
Nws tsis yog qhov zais cia uas tib neeg feem coob pib ua haujlwm thib ob. Qhov tshaj plaws yog tias lawv sib dua thiab tsis tas yuav tsum tau them nqi loj. Lub hlwb zoo li casthiab lub cev tsis nyiam overstrain, yog tias lawv tsis accustomed rau qhov no. Thiab qhov kev siv ntawm cov khoom tsis tseem ceeb tsim cov tsos ntawm kev ua haujlwm, tab sis qhov tseeb yog tias koj yuav tsum tau ua tib zoo saib xyuas cov dej num, cov kev daws teeb meem uas yuav ua rau koj ua tiav. Paub yuav ua li cas thiaj ua tau lub neej tseem ceeb yuav pab tau koj li no.
qeb ua ntej ntawm daim ntawv Eisenhower
Qhov tseem ceeb A yog yam uas yuav tsum tau ua niaj hnub no vim yog qhov tseem ceeb thiab tseem ceeb.
Qhov tseem ceeb B yog yam uas xaiv tau rau ib hnub tshwj xeeb, tab sis rau qhov uas koj yuav tsum tau txiav tawm me me ntawm lub sijhawm txhua hnub. Lawv qhov kev siv ruaj khov yuav ua rau kev ua tiav ntawm lub hom phiaj ze dua.
Ib qho yuam kev heev yog ncua sijhawm ntawm pawg thib ob mus txog tom qab. Koj tsis tas yuav ua qhov no, vim tias tus cwj pwm tsim los ntawm kev daws teeb meem tas li hauv qhov me me yuav ua rau muaj txiaj ntsig zoo rau koj qhov kev ua tiav ntxiv.
Piv txwv ntawm cov dej num los ntawm qhov tseem ceeb B:
- Sau daim ntawv pov thawj lossis daim ntawv qhia tseem ceeb rau kev ua haujlwm. Cia peb hais tias koj muaj ib lub hlis los npaj cov ntawv qhia tsim nyog. Tab sis koj ncua sijhawm ua haujlwm hauv lub thawv dub. Raws li qhov tshwm sim, kev coj ncaj ncees thiab lub cev muaj zog dhau lub sijhawm dhau los ua ntej xa tsab ntawv ceeb toom tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev kub ntxhov thiab qhov tshwm sim tsis zoo.
- Nyob rau hauv koj tus kheej lub neej, piv txwv zoo ntawm cov dej num los ntawm daim ntawv B yuav raug kuaj raws sij hawm los ntawm kws kho mob txhawm rau txheeb xyuas cov kab mob thaum ntxov kom tsis txhob muaj kev tsis taus ntev tom qab.
Ua haujlwm nrogthib peb thiab plaub qhov tseem ceeb
Qhov tseem ceeb C. Cov no suav nrog cov txuj ci uas koj xav tias yuav tsum kawm sai tab sis tsis tseem ceeb. Piv txwv li, kawm hais 'tsis yog' thaum xav tau tshwm sim. Cov haujlwm no yuav muab sijhawm rau koj los daws cov haujlwm tseem ceeb.
Priority D. Cov no yog cov dej num uas tsis tseem ceeb lossis ceev. Koj tuaj yeem ncua sijhawm rau lawv tom qab, lossis tso siab rau lwm tus neeg. Nws raug nquahu kom koj hla cov haujlwm ua ntu zus los ntawm cov npe D. Vim li no, koj tuaj yeem tau txais kev so zoo rau hnub ntxhov siab tshaj plaws.
Yuav ua li cas thiaj li ua ntej raws li txoj kev Eisenhower
Kev paub ua qhov tseem ceeb tsis yog ib txoj haujlwm nyuaj, tsuas yog qhov uas yuav tsum tau teem sijhawm me ntsis rau kev sau ntawv. Tab sis tom qab ntawd, ua raws li koj tus kheej cov lus qhia, nws yuav yooj yim dua ua.
- Qhia koj cov haujlwm txhua hnub raws li plaub yam saum toj no. Txoj kev no koj yuav pom tam sim ntawd qhov tseem ceeb thiab ceev, thiab qhov tsis muaj txiaj ntsig.
- Tsis txhob cuam tshuam qhov tseem ceeb nrog qhov ceev. Tej yam tseem ceeb tuaj yeem ua tiav maj mam, muab kev saib xyuas me ntsis txhua hnub. Lawv yog ib feem tseem ceeb ntawm koj txoj kev vam meej. Cov teeb meem ceev ceev yuav tsum tau saib xyuas thiab txiav txim siab sai. Tab sis nws yuav tsis siv rau koj lub hom phiaj.
- Ua tib zoo mloog rau kev tsim kho hierarchical ntawm daim ntawv. Cov teeb meem tseem ceeb yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj qhov ceev ceev. Tsis txhob poob rau kev ua haujlwm ceev, vim lawv nyiam siv sijhawm ntau thiab saib xyuas, cuam tshuam los ntawm cov haujlwm tseem ceeb. Yog ua tau kom zam tauCov teeb meem ceev ceev - siv nws.
- Ua kom tiav tag nrho cov khoom los ntawm Qhov Tseem Ceeb A. Txawm tias txoj haujlwm kawg ntawm thawj qeb tseem ceeb dua thawj yam khoom los ntawm lwm pab pawg. Yog tias thaum nruab hnub nws tsis tuaj yeem tiv nrog txhua yam tseem ceeb, txuas ntxiv ua haujlwm nrog lawv rau hnub tom qab. Tsis txhob txav mus rau lwm pawg kom txog thaum koj ua tiav tag nrho cov khoom los ntawm qeb A.
- Txhua hnub sim ua kom tiav cov haujlwm ntev tshaj plaws los ntawm Qhov Tseem Ceeb B. Tab sis hauv kev ua haujlwm txhua hnub, tsis txhob hnov qab txog koj lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb thiab ua haujlwm kom ua tiav lawv.
Txawm tias koj xav kom them ntau npaum li cas, tsis muaj sijhawm txaus rau txhua yam. Thiab qhov no yuav tsum to taub. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, thiab tom qab ntawd kev vam meej yuav tsis ntev tom ntej.
Tshaj koj lub sijhawm kom muaj kev txawj ntse, siv nws ntawm yam tseem ceeb uas yuav pab koj ua tiav koj lub hom phiaj thiab paub txog koj qhov kev ntshaw tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. Kev muaj peev xwm los qhia txog yam tseem ceeb ntawm ib qho kev ua ub no thiab zam qhov thib ob yog ib qho txuj ci tseem ceeb thiab muaj txiaj ntsig. Txoj kev Eisenhower yuav pab koj nkag siab tias yuav ua li cas thiaj tseem ceeb rau koj lub neej.