Kev npau taws yog ib qho ntawm tib neeg kev xav. Thiab nws kuj yog ib tug harbinger ntawm aggression. Feem ntau ib tug neeg poob rau hauv kev npau taws vim qhov kev tsis ncaj ncees qhia rau nws. Qhov no yog ua raws li los ntawm kev kub ntxhov los yog kev npau taws. Tab sis nws yog ib qho thaum ib tug neeg npau taws rau ib qho laj thawj tiag tiag. Tab sis tom qab tag nrho, ntau tus neeg pom kev npau taws npau taws los ntawm mere trifles. Yuav ua li cas rau qhov no, yuav ua li cas nrog npau taws?
Background
Ua ntej koj yuav tsum rov qab mus rau lub hauv paus chiv keeb. Yog hais tias ib tug neeg pib nrog ib nrab tig thiab flashes nrog ib tug xiav nplaim taws los ntawm me ntsis sparks, nws muaj teeb meem. Feem ntau, nws tsis txaus siab rau nws lub neej. Los yog teem caij, ua hauj lwm, tsev, tus kheej pem hauv ntej. Thiab ntawm no yog cov lus qhia 1 rau kev npau taws: Ua kom koj lub neej rov qab los.
Thiab muaj ntau txoj hauv kev. Ua ntej, koj yuav tsum tau tshem ntawm overvoltage. Pw tsaug zog ib txwm teev, noj tib lub sijhawm, tsis txhob rub lub tsev "load" los ntawm kev ua haujlwm (xws likev xav, thiab hauv daim ntawv ntawm kev ua haujlwm). Qhov thib ob, koj yuav tsum coj cov dej num hauv lub neej. Yog tias ib tug neeg tsuas muaj tsev thiab ua haujlwm hauv nws lub sijhawm, nws tsis yog qhov xav tsis thoob tias nws tau npau taws thiab poob rau hauv kev npau taws tshaj qhov tsis txaus ntseeg. Koj tuaj yeem sau npe rau gym, pas dej da dej, yoga. Thiab lub neej yuav muaj ntau haiv neeg, thiab qhov xwm txheej yuav hloov, thiab kev noj qab haus huv yuav muaj zog.
cov lus qhia yooj yim
Nco ntsoov tshem tej yam tsis tsim nyog. Nyob rau hauv qhov chaw dawb, tsis muaj kev sib txuas, lub neej yooj yim dua. Raws li Feng Shui, kev sib sau ua ke ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab hauv lub siab.
Thiab koj kuj yuav tsum tsum txhob maj. Thaum ib tug neeg tsis tu ncua, ib tug tau txais kev xav tias lub sij hawm luv luv. Thiab nws yog txaus, koj tsuas yog yuav tsum tau siv rau nws qhov kev faib tawm. Txhawm rau ua qhov no, koj tuaj yeem pib sau phau ntawv rau kev npaj sijhawm thiab rooj plaub. Thiab sawv ntxov ib nrab teev ua ntej ua ib qho kev tawm dag zog, da dej thiab txaus siab rau ib khob kas fes. Yog li nws yuav tig tawm mus rau lub suab koj tus kheej thiab teeb lub siab rau tag nrho hnub tom ntej. Thiab yog tias thaum sawv ntxov pib nrog qw ntawm "Kuv tuaj lig!" thiab noj tshais sai sai ntawm kev mus, nws tsis xav tsis thoob tias tom qab ntawd qee qhov tsis txaus ntseeg ua rau ib tus neeg.
Txoj kev cuam tshuam koj tus kheej
Tshem tawm qhov yuav tsum tau ua ua ntej tsis yog ib hnub. Yog li ntawd, txoj hauv kev los daws qhov kev npau taws uas los ntawm ib lub sijhawm kuj tsim nyog paub.
Koj yuav tsum tig koj lub siab rau koj ua pa. Tuav lub sij hawm siab tshaj plaws, ces thawb tawm ntawm huab cua. Dab tsi rau? Yog li nws yuav tig tawm kom txo qis kev puas siab puas ntsws thiab tsawg kawg yuav cuam tshuam.
Yog npau taws thov kom tawm, ceskoj tuaj yeem rhuav daim ntawv, ntawv xov xwm, daim ntaub so ntswg rau shreds, tawg ib tus cwj mem qub. Txawm nyob rau hauv tus txheej txheem ntawm kev sib txuas lus nrog cov khoom ntawm irritability. Nws txawv, tab sis ib puas npaug zoo dua qhov scandal.
Aromatherapy yog ib txoj hauv kev zoo. Tab sis ntawm kev ua haujlwm, da dej nrog cov roj tsw qab tsis tuaj yeem pab tiv nrog kev npau taws. Nws tsuas yog tsis nyob ntawd. Yog li khaws ib lub hnab me me (sachet) ntawm cov tshuaj ntsuab qhuav nrog koj.
Thiab qhov haum ntawm kev npau taws tau zoo "tshem tawm" nrog dej txias. Cov txheej txheem no txo qhov nro ntawm cov leeg ntawm lub ntsej muag thiab txhim kho cov ntshav ncig.
Appeal to logic
Yog ib tug neeg raug kev kub ntxhov thiab npau taws rau ib tug neeg, ces lub sij hawm xav txog qhov xwm txheej. Koj tuaj yeem muab koj tus kheej tso rau hauv qhov chaw ntawm tus neeg sib tw khaus. Nug ob peb lo lus nug. Vim li cas nws thiaj hais li ntawd? Nws yog dab tsi?
Thiab kuj tshwm sim - ib tug neeg ua txhaum rau ib tug neeg uas tsis yog yuav luag txhua, tom qab ntawd nws khuv xim. Tab sis lo lus tsis yog ib tug noog. Txhawm rau kom tsis txhob muaj qhov yuam kev no, koj yuav tsum tsim kom muaj tus cwj pwm nyob twj ywm. Tsis txhob blurt tawm cynical xav, tab sis xav - nws yog tsim nyog los hais lawv txhua? Puas tsim nyog nws? Feem ntau, cov lus teb tsis yog. Koj tsis tuaj yeem mus txog kev xav, vim tias koj tuaj yeem ua rau koj tus hlub ua rau koj ua phem rau koj. Tab sis nws tsis yog nws qhov txhaum uas tib neeg lub hnub (lossis lub neej) ua tsis tiav.
Ntau tus neeg, xav txog yuav ua li cas tiv nrog kev npau taws, txiav txim siab los txhim kho qhov kev xav ntawm lawv tus kheej uas tswj kev ua phem. Piv txwv li, txhua zaus koj hnov qhov kev ua phem, tom koj daim di ncauj lossis nyemcov hniav. Qhov kev ua tsis zoo li no yuav txiav tawm ntawm kev xav phem.
Hais txog yuav ua li cas nrog kev npau taws thiab kev chim siab, ib tus tsis tuaj yeem tham txog kev tso tawm lub zog. Txhua tus neeg uas muaj kev ua phem yuav tsum nrhiav nws tus kheej ib txoj hauv kev uas nws tuaj yeem koom nrog kev xav tsis zoo. Saum toj no yog txoj hauv kev los daws cov tantrums. Uas yog txwv lawv thiab thaiv lawv. Tab sis lawv sib sau ua ke - hauv cov leeg, tus ntsuj plig, kev nco qab. Thiab txhua tus neeg, kev chim siab, yuav tsum paub tias tsis ntev nws yuav tso tag nrho nws txoj kev xav.
Piv txwv li, hauv kev ncaws pob ncaws pob, ntaus lub hnab xuas nrig. Los yog ntawm ib lub treadmill, conquering conditional kilometers. Hu nkauj pab ntau heev. Zoo dua, qw. Puas muaj peev xwm tawm mus rau qhov chaw deb ntawm tib neeg? Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob nco nws. Tom qab ib tug neeg qw rau tag nrho cov zej zog, nws yuav muaj kev xyiv fab thiab txaus siab. Yuav muaj kev sib raug zoo ntawm lub hlwb, ua raws li theem ntawm kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb.
Nyob zoo
Tom qab qw lossis ntaus lub txiv duaj, koj yuav tsum so kom txaus. Vim tag nrho cov no kuj yog ib hom kev nro. Thiab yuav ua li cas tom qab koj tswj tau kev npau taws thiab npau taws? Nws yog qhov zoo tshaj rau da dej kub. Ua tsaug rau qhov no, nws yuav muaj peev xwm ntxiv dag zog rau lub cev, normalize lub concentration ntawm ntsev nyob rau hauv lub cev, tshem tawm cov suab thaj ntau dhau thiab, thaum kawg, ntxuav koj tus kheej ntawm lub zog tsis zoo. Tsis tas li ntawd, da dej kub ntxiv dag zog rau lub raum thiab lub plawv. Qhov no, nyob rau hauv lem, cuam tshuam rau kev ntxuav ntawm cov hlab ntsha thiab "piercing"kaw capillaries.
Los ntawm txoj kev, yog tias ua tau, koj yuav tsum siv sijhawm los zaws. Nws pab ua kom lub cev thiab tus ntsuj plig nyob rau hauv qhov zoo tshaj plaws, thiab tseem rov qab lub cev tom qab kev ntxhov siab, txo cov leeg nro, so lawv thiab normalizes blocked zog txaus.
Tom qab cov txheej txheem, koj yuav tsum txaus siab rau ib khob tshuaj yej ntsuab los yog decoction ntawm currant nplooj, raspberries thiab sawv hips. Qhov no yuav pab kho qhov sib npaug ntawm cov vitamin C. Ob peb tus neeg mob siab rau qhov nuance no, tab sis tsis muaj dab tsi. Qhov tsis muaj cov organic compound no ua rau beriberi, uas ua rau mob nqaij thiab pob qij txha, tsaug zog, qaug zog thiab chim siab. Qhov no tsis tshua muaj neeg xav tau, twb txhawj xeeb txog kev tiv thaiv kev npau taws thiab kev ua phem.
kev npau taws me ntsis
Lub ncauj lus no kuj tsim nyog them rau. Ntau tus niam txiv tuav lawv lub taub hau - yuav ua li cas nrog menyuam txoj kev npau taws, yuav ua li cas yog tias tus menyuam npau taws? Ua ntej koj yuav tsum to taub lub hauv paus ntawm qhov kev xav no. Tsis yog txhua tus menyuam yaus sib cuag nrog lawv niam lawv txiv, yog li feem ntau ib tus tuaj yeem kwv yees txog qhov laj thawj.
Qhov feem ntau ua rau tus menyuam npau taws yog qhov tshwm sim ntawm lwm "paj ntawm lub neej" hauv tsev neeg. Nws ua rau tsis tsuas yog npau taws xwb, tab sis kuj muaj kev khib. Ib tug me nyuam, accustomed mus rau kev hlub, kev saib xyuas ntawm cov niam txiv thiab cov kev pab cuam vim nws, yog offended los ntawm lub fact tias tam sim no tag nrho cov no mus tsis tau tsuas yog rau nws ib leeg. Yuav kom kov yeej cov me nyuam txoj kev npau taws hauv qhov xwm txheej no, koj tsis tas yuav hais cov kab lus no: "Zoo, koj yog dab tsi, me nyuam, peb tseem hlub koj." Cov lus tsis tsim nyogua - txuas ntxiv qhia kev saib xyuas thiab kev hlub rau tus menyuam. Txawm nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv ntawm qhov teeb meem. Yog cov niam txiv yuav ob peb pob khoom rau tus me nyuam mos thiab tsis nqa ib yam dab tsi rau tus laus, nws yog to taub hais tias nws yuav ua phem rau.
Lwm yam yog vim li cas
Tab sis tus menyuam kuj tuaj yeem npau taws rau lwm yam. Piv txwv li, yog nws raug yuam kom ua yam nws tsis xav tau. Ntxuav koj pob ntseg txhua hnub, noj porridge nkaus xwb thaum sawv ntxov, mus taug kev tsuas yog hnub Sunday xwb. Cov niam txiv xav tsis thoob - txhua yam zoo ua ntej! Lawm. Tom qab tag nrho, ua ntej tus me nyuam yog naive, tab sis tam sim no nws pib tsim raws li ib tug neeg thiab ua cim. Thiab nws yuav qhia tau li cas? Tsuas yog npau taws, vim hais tias tam sim no, vim nws lub hnub nyoog, nws tsis paub lwm txoj hauv kev - tsuas yog kev xav. Thiab ntau tus niam txiv, pom tias tus menyuam tsis mloog lus, pib qw thiab ntxhov siab. Thiab yog li ntawd lawv yuav ua zoo xav txog yuav ua li cas tiv nrog kev npau taws ntawm tus menyuam, vim nws ua li qub.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau cov laus kom lees txais qhov tseeb no. Nkag siab tias lawv tus menyuam yog ib tus neeg txawv. Thiab muab nws compromises. Tsis xav noj porridge txhua tag kis? Okay, cia peb noj buns rau pluas tshais ob zaug hauv ib lub lis piam. Tsuas yog taug kev ntawm ib lub lis piam ua rau nws zoo li nws raug ntes hauv tsev? Koj tuaj yeem tso cai rau nws tawm mus rau cov phooj ywg thiab qee hnub ua haujlwm. Tus yuam sij rau kev daws qhov teeb meem yog nyob rau hauv kev nrog tus menyuam thiab nkag siab nws txoj kev xav. Nws tseem ceeb heev kom nco ntsoov qhov no.
Yuav ua li cas teb rau kev ua phem?
Nov yog ib lub ntsiab lus tseem ceeb heev. Thiab nws yog ib qho tsim nyog hais ob peb lo lus hais txog nws, txij li feem ntau qhov kev chim siab uas ua rau npau taws yog kev npau taws thiab npau taws. Thiab nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev tsis txhob ua rau nws lub hwj chim, thiaj li tsis ua rau koj lub siab xav.
Koj yuav tsum nyob twj ywm thiab tsis txhob poob mus rau theem ntawm tus npau taws interlocutor. Yog tias nws tsis tuaj yeem thaiv kev sib cuag los ntawm kev tawm hauv nws (piv txwv li, tus thawj coj npau taws), koj yuav tsum tsis txhob muaj kev tawm tsam. Saib ncaj qha rau ntawm lub qhov muag, tuav koj lub taub hau siab, parrying nrog kev sib cav. Txawm hais tias tus thawj coj nyob rau hauv kev npau taws heev, lub logic ntawm nws tus nrog sib ntaus yuav muaj peev xwm ua kom muaj qhov sib txawv hauv nws lub siab. Los yog tsawg kawg qhov tsis ntshai ntawm "tus neeg raug tsim txom" yuav ua rau nws poob siab.
Thiab tsis tas yuav hais lus sib cav. Parry - yog, tab sis tsis furiously ua pov thawj thiab tiv thaiv txhua qhov kev xav. Hauv kev sib cav zoo li no, kev ua siab ntev yog qhov tseem ceeb. Thiab ua siab ntev. Tus thawj yuav tham thiab ua siab ntev. Ces tsis nco qab txog dab tsi tshwm sim. Ib txhia txawm thov txim. Tab sis yog hais tias ib tug subordinate pib ua impudent nyob rau hauv cov lus teb, qhia tus cwj pwm, muaj kev pheej hmoo ntawm cov yeeb ncuab tseem tshuav.
